Friday, May 10, 2013

So Sad

    As I have posted before, Mr. is extremely private, which means I am expected to be as well.

No Facebook
No Twitter
No anything even remotely close to those two.

    I just wanted to post this as my sad goodbye blog. Over the short time I was here, I really got some great advice and insight from others.
    I see that DD/TTWD is an ever learning/changing process that takes constant work and dedication.
I will still read everyone else's blog, but I will not be able to post. This is the part of submission that really stinks.. but comes with the territory.
   My advice to the newbies into this lifestyle, don't rush your HOH to be dominant and strict. You really don't know what you are getting into and asking for. The smallest of things may then be forbidden. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but it is a hard thing to swallow and remain submissive when it comes to things you really like doing as downtime or anything like that. However, when you are trying to remain in sync and keeping the close bond between you and your HOH tight and bound, your biggest and smallest desires for yourself beyond pale in comparison.
    I will miss my blog, but our relationship is beyond more important (no words to describe the relationship) than my trivial desires.

Hugs and Submission Dust!! (To the submissive women of course :D)



  1. Your comments will be missed but your heart is in the right place and that is to please your HOH and that is what you are exactly are doing great.
    Be well and I look forward to hear from you through our posts.


    1. Thanks Bob :)

      I'm sorry it took so long to respond. I really didn't want to let this go, but it wasn't open for discussion. I will miss you all too, and yes I will definitely keep in touch with comments. :)

  2. You were very brave to tell him about it.
    Please keep in touch with your comments.

    1. Thanks Janey,
      I'm sorry for the late response. I had to free myself from this. I really liked it :'( I will keep in touch :)

  3. I'm sorry to see you go.


  4. SO very sorry to see you go, but after reading this, I understand completely. You have been incredibly helpful to me, and I respect that you are putting him first. Hugs to you!!!!


    1. Thanks Marie ! :'(

      Definitely bittersweet!

      Submission hugs to you!!

  5. Building your relationship is much more important than things here. While it is nice to have community and a place to process, perhaps he will come to understand that it is possible to remain anonymous, and can even be helpful in the development of your submission. It's all very new, and a lot to consider. They are the big picture people, and he has to keep your RW life in the forefront, right after you. It may change, and if it doesn't, just remember he is driven by his need to love and protect.


    1. Thanks for stopping by June.
      I absolutely agree! Our relationship is at the top of my list always! Everything he does is for the betterment of us, and to keep us happy!

      ****SUPER HUGS****

  6. oh this makes me so sad. i wondered how you were doing and popped over here...obviously i'm very late to find out. take care of yourself, and definitely comment because i always loved seeing your name in posts among the community. love ya pink. :)


  7. Hi Mary,

    Thanks for checking on me. Mister and myself our doing beautifully. I see/hear wedding bells swiftly approaching for us! You will definitely keep seeing me commenting throughout the community (as long as I can). Love you too :D

    Super Hugs,


  8. So sorry to see you go, glad to see your template is still here in case you're able to come back in the future :)
    There are ways to stay in touch with comments or in a safe chat room.
    # MrBBSpanker

    1. I am hoping he will change his mind in the future (wishful thinking), but for now, I am definitely hanging around and checking on others and commenting. :D

      Thanks for stopping by,